And you wonder why she treats you like an idiot, why you have less sex, and why your marriage is generally miserable…We know you are doing it on purpose. How about you be considerate to your partner instead of playing games? You know, instead of calling her a ‘nag’ for example, you suck it up and do your share and clean up after yourself; assist with the kiddos you helped make; make a meal or empty the dishwasher without having to be asked or praised.