Having endured my negligent, abusive, narcissistic sociopathic psychopathic relatives, you’d think I would see those bad guys who don’t deserve me coming from a mile away. Alas, it took me years to finally descry their passive-aggressive petty games and bullshit. The bulk of the men I’ve had relationships with were users and losers. Sure, they didn’t seem to start out that way — charming and smart — but by the time the relationship crossed the finish line (breakup) they were absolutely miserable to be around. Like petulant jerks who just wanted things their way, no matter who they hurt along the way. They love nothing more than to take lovely hardworking kind ladies for granted and see how far they could get misbehaving.

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