I know at least 15 different women who attempted to pursue their exes for support — and because he had managed to stop working and get support from relatives — the “father” made a point to skirt out on his duties. And yet they are still granted visitation even though they don’t provide anything for their kids. Instead they get to play the cool parent letting their kids do whatever they want on visitation days — making mom look like the hard ass. Just saying this doesn’t always apply to all situations.