I'm always the one in the wedding shot or semi-formal occasion who is wearing some frumpy, shapeless dress because there is nothing in my size ever that looks nice. I never look put together, even though I know what looks nice and can afford nice, they just don't make it for me because I have hips, that unless I have them broken and reset, will never get smaller and an actual ass. Nothing ever fits me the way it "should" either. And I too have rage cried my way through a shopping trip before.