…still got it,” she said with a smile and a shrug. When she saw my expression, she laughed lightly. “You don’t have to take it so seriously, you know.”Catcalling Is Not a Compliment — No Matter How You Try to Justify It64514Samantha BlakeMegan CharlesJul 30, 2020·1 min readsprinkled hints of gaslighting...just sayin'. I'm sure she was well-meaning, but telling someone how to feel about something isn't healthy. It is called gaslighting, even if it is mild like this. If something makes you uncomfortable, it is valid.