Talked to the boyfriend. He was still in college. I was ending my first temp job. He said I had to take care of it. I told him I wasn’t sure I could mentally or emotionally handle an abortion.When I Had An Abortion1.94K17Shannon AshleyMegan CharlesApr 5, 2019·1 min readWow. He’s a winner. Once again, something situationally common where the guy takes little to no responsibility for his end of the circumstance and leaves her to deal with it as though she magically got pregnant all on her own.